Numerology for Relationships
Which numbers to compare between two people, the three number families, and what each number needs from the people close to it.
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Which numbers to compare
Numerologists compare the Life Paths first, for pace and temperament, then the Soul Urge numbers, for what each person wants, and the Expression numbers, for style.
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The three families
A common rule of thumb in modern numerology groups the numbers into three families that understand each other easily: 1, 5 and 7, the independent thinkers; 2, 4 and 8, the builders and managers; 3, 6 and 9, the creators and carers.
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The Music of Number
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What each number needs from the people close to it
Find the number that concerns you, your Life Path or the Personal Day or Year in question, and read its line:
| Number | What it needs |
|---|---|
| 1 | Respect for its independence. |
| 2 | Gentleness and reassurance. |
| 3 | Play and conversation. |
| 4 | Reliability. |
| 5 | Space and novelty. |
| 6 | Appreciation. |
| 7 | Privacy and depth. |
| 8 | Respect and loyalty. |
| 9 | Shared ideals. |
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Calculate your complete personal number pattern and see which part of it is active over the next thirty days.
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Common questions
Which numbers are compatible in numerology?
A common rule of thumb in modern numerology groups the numbers into three families that understand each other easily: 1, 5 and 7, the independent thinkers; 2, 4 and 8, the builders and managers; 3, 6 and 9, the creators and carers.
Which number matters most in a relationship?
The Life Path for temperament and the Soul Urge for desire; many numerologists weigh the Soul Urge match most for love.
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